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Getting Back Your Ex Girlfriend - 3 Things That You Don" t Want To Do

There are some things that you definitely don't want to do if you are hoping to be successful at getting back your ex girlfriend. There are things that are going to end up becoming an obstacle that you can't overcome and those are the things that you need to avoid if you can. It's not hopeless if you have broken up with your ex girlfriend and you want her back, but there are things that can make it become that way if you are not careful enough.

Here are 3 things that you don't want to do if you are serious about getting back your ex girlfriend:

1. You don't want to become mad at her for the break up.

Being mad with her is something that feels good in the moment, but it doesn't do much for the long term goal of being able to win her back. When you make decisions because you are mad at her, you are pretty much doomed to make all of the wrong ones. You have to be careful about allowing any anger that you have to cause you to do something or say something that you are going to spend the rest of your life regretting. It's an easy thing to say something that you can't take back in the heat of the moment, but that is something that you need to avoid if you are going to end up back with her.

2. You don't want to focus only on her even if she is the one you want to be with.

It may be really counter intuitive to think that you shouldn't think about dating other women, but it can be a bog help. You don't want to become an obsessed ex boyfriend, because that is one of the things that is going to make your ex girlfriend feel like giving you another chance. Besides, you want to be happy, right? Well, are you going to be happy if you feel like your ex girlfriend is the only one that you can be with? Probably not.

3. You don't want to act like a doormat if you want to get your ex girlfriend back.

Are you the kind of guy who will do any favor that your ex girlfriend needs done because you think it will help you to get her back? You need to stop that if you are that guy. Doing things for her in the hopes that you are going to win her back is just going to make you seem like a doormat and if you don't already know it - most women don't really feel that much attraction for a guy who acts like a doormat.


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