Family & Relationships Conflict

Get Your Ex Back - How Can I Make My Ex Want Me Back?

If you have just recently broke up with your ex lover.
You are in the mood of deep despair.
You might want to do thing to influence your ex lover, but constantly and wondering whether your ex lover will return to your arms will probably make you suffer mental anxiety and deep pain.
First, if you want to change someone else thought you have to change yourself.
Get rid of your bad habits that have been annoying your ex that you might not been aware of.
Most couples broke up because of the habits that their partners can't stand, so you should think over the cause of disaster to understand what make your ex leaves you.
If you can identify the problem you can change your mindset to influence your ex to come back instead of 'make' them return to you.
So you might wonder how you can use your mindset to influence people.
It's usually through a leadership role or offering something benefit.
Benefit can be deliver by offering people what they need, for instance women prefer gentle man instead of a moody attitude, if you have the characteristic of a gentle man that meet these women expectation, you can influence them to come for you.
In other words, you can reverse the situation to make your ex want you back willingly.
You should 'sell' yourself.
People like to be together with someone who is fun and pleasure, rather than someone who is intense type.
If you can make people feel pleasure or amuse, you can influence them with your joke and friendly attitude.
It is the same as winning back your ex.
You can have a better chance in winning them back if you understand what they want from you as a partner.
Do not be confuse and think you have to put something big like a song and dance to show them your sincerity in order to get your ex back.
It doesn't work that way.
People are rational self-interest you should show what you have and offer to them, as a reason for your ex to come back.

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