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Use Common Sense To Win Your Girlfriend Back - Not "head Games"!

What you do not want to do when your trying to get your girlfriend back is play head games. You know, the usual stuff like calling her every hour, texting her 100 times and stalking her.That's called harrassment and it's illegal! Use some common sense instead. Think of how you would want her to persue you if the shoe were on the other foot. Wouldn't you like her more if she didn't harrass you and respected your personal space? Well there you go. It's ok to call her once or twice a week or send her a gift now and then. Just don't get aggressive and over do it. Remember to always be aware of her feelings.

Although it's perfectly ok to date other women while your trying to get her back, it really doesn't make much sense. A common misconception is that if you make her jealous, she will come running back to you. Let's think about that for a second. Isn't that a little risky? You stand a pretty good chance of pushing her away for good. Here's where you use common sense to win your girlfriend back. While you want her to know that you are available, you do not want her to think that you are ignoring her or worse yet playing head games. So limit your affiliation with other women to friendly conversation.

Some people think that observation is the key to getting your gal back. This is where you observe her likes and dislikes in men. Now to do this she has to be dating other guys. You pay attention to the type of guy or guys she is dating. Determine how they are different than you. Are they atheletic, bookish, a poet, a musician,etc.. Then you try to become more like them. That's all well and good. But since you are her ex boyfriend, you should have some idea of what she is looking for in a man. Then again maybe her taste in men is changing. In that case, I guess there's no harm in watching just a little. Just remember you can't be someone else.

Use common sense to win your girlfriend back, not head games. I think the best way to do that is to work on you. Be the guy she knew when you first met. You know, the guy that she fell in love with. Try to remember how it was early in the relationship. Go to the gym a couple of times a week. It may take a while to get back together. So in the meantime, do what ever you like to do. Go hang out with your buddies, play some ball, knock down a few brewskies.


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