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Win Her Back After A Breakup - She Will Not Take You If You Do These Things

After breaking up with their girlfriend, most guys immediately want to get to know what they can do to win her back. Most men end up realizing that being single is not always what it is cracked up to be, and when you find yourself alone and thinking about HER, the only thing that you can think about is how to win her back after a breakup. It's not that hard when you know what to do, but most guys don't really have the foggiest idea on what they should be doing.

Well, you don't want to end up doing things that are going to PUSH her away, do you?

I did not think that you would.

Here are some of the classic things that *will* drive her away from you:

1. The moment that you break up with her, you are going to want to call her up and talk things over.

Don't do this right away, though. Not when you are still in the heat of all the emotions that are overcoming you. That will make you say the wrong things to her, and that can drive a wedge between the two of you that nothing will remove. Many guys have made this mistake, and it wound up being the thing that did them in for GOOD.

2. You want to get to know what she is up to.

Just don't resort to spying on her, inquiring her friends about her, or any other kind of "stalker" like behavior. Seriously, it's not healthy to engage in these behaviors, and when she finds out, she is going to think of you as being some kind of creep that she does not want in her life at ALL.

3. You try and try to convince her that she should take you back.

Telling a woman what she *should* do is never a good thing. Telling your ex girlfriend that she should get back together with you is about the worst thing that you can do. It's basically like shooting yourself in the foot, thinking that it will somehow help you walk better. Convincing your ex girlfriend to take you back is not a strategy that you should take part in at all.


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