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My Wife Cheated On Me - The First 3 Steps You Should Take To Survive Her Unfaithfulness

So your wife cheated on you and it's left you heartbroken and lost as to what you should do.

What if I could tell you EXACTLY how you can work your way back to a stronger marriage? What if I could help you to work through this affair and make a full recovery as fast as possible?

Whether you plan on getting back together with your wife or not doesn't matter, these 3 steps are designed to help YOU, not your wife. They're not about saving your marriage (although they WILL help), or about forgiving your wife...They're about you and YOUR journey through this affair.

First, You Must Understand Why She Cheated on You

If your wife has committed adultery, then you can bet your bottom dollar that there was SOME reason for it...Very few women cheat purely for the sexual satisfaction of it.

What you need to do is take some time to learn about the different types of affairs (physical, emotional, online, ongoing, one-time, etc...) and figure out where your wife falls in the scheme of things.

Understanding what type of affair your wife had and why exactly she cheated on you will help bring you to the next step of recovery, which is:

Face the Facts - Is There Anything You Could Have Done Differently

Now, I am NOT asking you whether or not the affair was your fault.

It wasn't. Cheating is NEVER the answer in marriage, because you and your wife both took sacred vows to not cheat.

However, that doesn't mean that there's nothing that you could've done differently in the marriage that may or may not have helped you and your wife to have a healthier, happier relationship.

And hey, there may be nothing. You may find that there's literally nothing you can think of that you would have done differently, even if you could.

Did Your Wife Plan on Cheating?

This is perhaps the biggest question that you're going to need to answer...Did your wife PLAN on having an affair?

Did she premeditate who she was going to cheat with, how she was going to do it, where she was going to do it, or anything like that?

Basically, did your wife set out to cheat, or did it just happen?

There's a big difference between the two, because if your wife made a conscious effort to cheat on you, then you need to be significantly more on your guard than if she was just weak willed and gave in to temptation.

Not that cheating is EVER excusable, but if the affair was premeditated then you should STRONGLY consider leaving her, because she really simply can not be trusted at this point. If your wife made a plan to lie and cheat on you behind your back, then is that really someone you want to be married to?

Ask yourself.

If you believe that your marriage can be saved, and you're willing to do everything possible to get your wife back, then it's time for you to take action. Click below to find out how you can make sure your wife never cheats again AND save your marriage:

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